1. This doesnt mean you have to say yes; it does mean you need to be articulate and thoughtful when saying no. For example, if your boss issues an unreasonable request, rather than saying, youve got to be kidding me.
这并不是要你有求必应；只是告诉你三思之后再拒绝。例如，如果老板提出不合理的要求，不要说开什么玩笑，这根本就不是我的分内之事。
2. Speak down, but always say yes and mean no detains, hope it don't disappear so fast, don't go that far.
说著放下，却总是在口是心非地挽留著，希望这一切不要消失的那么快，不要走得那么远。