1. And you kind of lose a little power and control, which you want to do for your child.
2. And as you do your kind acts, say " Merry Christmas " or " Happy Holidays " with a bright smile.
3. The tone is favorable for your kind and humorous nature, and you may even be able to pull off a few tricks.
4. If any kind of conflict erupts in your group, be frank and open about how you feel.